School system: High school students may become ‘clingy’ and tearful over minor mishap involving kid they never heard of

School system: High school students may become ‘clingy’ and tearful over minor mishap involving kid they never heard of

I received an email from the Arlington County Public Schools schools telling me that a single “student was found unconscious in a bathroom at Wakefield High School,” a school my daughter does not attend. The email went on to inform me that “Students learning of the incident may experience a variety of emotions and you may see the following behaviors: tearfulness, irritability, clinginess, withdrawal, physical complaints, fear of dying or difficulty concentrating.”

Why would high school students in an entire county become tearful and “clingy” just because a student in one high school — who is very much alive, and who they have never met — was found unconscious? Doesn’t that treat high school students like babies? And why would even a two-year-old become “clingy” about a mishap involving a kid he doesn’t even know and doesn’t go to school with him?

What might unsettle students at Wakefield is the fact that the school was needlessly placed on lockdown due to the incident, which did not involve a shooter or any threat to the safety of other students. It is the school system’s behavior, not the student being found unconscious, that could have momentarily left students with “fear of dying or difficulty concentrating.” But only momentarily. It’s not a big deal for students. Schools have lockdown drills all the time, and no one is traumatized by them.

Arlington County has over 8,000 high school students and more than 27,000 K-12 students, most of whom never go anywhere near the high school in which this incident occurred.

Below is the email I received at January 31 at 11:45 AM:

Dear APS Families:

I am writing to inform the broader community that a student was found unconscious in a bathroom at Wakefield High School this morning. Staff took immediate action and called for medical assistance. School officials are in contact with the family of the student who was transported to the hospital by EMS. Wakefield staff and families were immediately notified.

We understand that this news is concerning for all and want to assure you that the safety and well-being of our students are our top priority. If you have concerns about your student, please contact their school counselor, or a school psychologist or school social worker.

Students learning of the incident may experience a variety of emotions and you may see the following behaviors: tearfulness, irritability, clinginess, withdrawal, physical complaints, fear of dying or difficulty concentrating.

Please talk with your student(s) to provide reassurance and the opportunity to express their thoughts and feelings. The resource below from the National Association of School Psychologists also provides tips and ideas to support your child:

We will provide updates as we are able and will continue to do everything we can to support the student and their family during this time.

Hans Bader

Hans Bader

Hans Bader practices law in Washington, D.C. After studying economics and history at the University of Virginia and law at Harvard, he practiced civil-rights, international-trade, and constitutional law. He also once worked in the Education Department. Hans writes for CNSNews.com and has appeared on C-SPAN’s “Washington Journal.” Contact him at hfb138@yahoo.com

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